Dating's Supposed To Be Fun Girls!

I get into a fair number of conversations in which I'll have women tell me about how dating is so very stressful. If dating is stressful girls, don't do it!

Dating is supposed to be the time in a relationship where there is no stress (I honestly believe that). Doing this dating thing shouldn't give us anxiety. It's the one thing in your life that you shouldn't need to worry about, outside of "Is this dress too short". If the person that you're dating stresses you, regardless of how long you've been with that person, be done with him. Life is full of other things that will stress you. You won't miss this one.

Some of us are stressed by the concept of dating. The very thought of finding Mr. Right is the whole reason that we stress! I know lots of single women who stress about finding 'That Dude', because they're in their 30's and their "clocks" are ticking, they get all nervous and sweaty before going on a date.

Dating shouldn't make you sweat sweetheart. Dating should excite you! The thought of meeting someone new, experiencing a new, possibly awesome personality should make you happy (yeah, yeah...I know. Sounds totally corny, but very true). THAT'S what dating is all about. It's about going out and having fun with someone that you've never experienced before...period. Nothing more, nothing less. If it turns into something more...GREAT! That's icing. If not, at the very least you will have had a great time, with someone who could very possibly stay in your life as a good friend.
If not, what-ev...keep movin' :)